tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7464288477765297322.post5360478184324794350..comments2023-10-07T10:09:03.954-04:00Comments on Inside A Mother's Heart: *sigh* They say we should "Suck it Up"Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05005536725335104357noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7464288477765297322.post-47794294689454960382007-11-08T20:10:00.000-05:002007-11-08T20:10:00.000-05:00Who told you to suck it up?I'm going to go stab th...Who told you to suck it up?<BR/><BR/>I'm going to go stab them in the eye, LOL!!!<BR/><BR/>Seriously. People that tell you that are in for a rude awakening next time they need a shoulder. Karma's a you-know-what <BR/><BR/>((((HUGS!!!))))Brown =)https://www.blogger.com/profile/06557823978323168626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7464288477765297322.post-18569959708537824432007-11-08T14:48:00.000-05:002007-11-08T14:48:00.000-05:00Michelle, There are several kinds of people...1. P...Michelle, <BR/><BR/>There are several kinds of people...<BR/><BR/>1. People who MUST totally invalidate anyone that might compromise their role as a mother.<BR/><BR/>2. People who MUST label anything that isn't sunshine and roses as 'angry'.<BR/><BR/>3. People who MUST constantly make other people feel like poo to make themselves feel awesome.<BR/><BR/>I suspect, the recent "Suck it up" Crier's are a combo of all three.Brandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11221044783467661958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7464288477765297322.post-55153498108204712722007-11-07T11:41:00.000-05:002007-11-07T11:41:00.000-05:00I am hoping (and praying) you are feeling better t...I am hoping (and praying) you are feeling better today.<BR/><BR/>As I have said in a different blog recently, keep talking, your voice will make a different to some people, and has to me.<BR/><BR/>I appreciate all I have learned from you.<BR/><BR/>AniAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7464288477765297322.post-2623505891912349482007-11-05T08:49:00.000-05:002007-11-05T08:49:00.000-05:00It is offensive as an adoptee to think ANYONE coul...It is offensive as an adoptee to think ANYONE could "get over" losing me. (did that sound egotistical?) I would ask those people just "which" of their children they could get over losing?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7464288477765297322.post-74314061249787736342007-11-05T02:00:00.000-05:002007-11-05T02:00:00.000-05:00I'm not sure who told you to suck it up, but I wou...I'm not sure who told you to suck it up, but I would have said I was glad to hear their personal philosophy so the next time they were really struggling I would know what they would want to hear.<BR/><BR/>Okay that was catty. But really.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7464288477765297322.post-50214133569815287672007-11-04T20:34:00.000-05:002007-11-04T20:34:00.000-05:00Think it would go over well if first/birth moms to...Think it would go over well if first/birth moms told infertile women to just "suck it up" and deal with it? Nah, don't think so. Besides I cannot imagine a birth mother saying that. <BR/><BR/>Whenever it hits, when a woman realizes she could have parented and was duped, it is a painful realization. <BR/><BR/>Just started a new group for women considering options.It is pro-parenting and not so thrilled with the adoption option.<BR/>http://www.cafemom.com/group/26942<BR/><BR/>So far, our members are birth mothers and one female adoptee. We'll be ready when some pregnant women find us!Cookiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09360315335057586498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7464288477765297322.post-13163156004978354932007-11-04T17:17:00.000-05:002007-11-04T17:17:00.000-05:00(((HUGS))) I think those other people need to prac...(((HUGS))) I think those other people need to practice what they preach. So really they should just suck it up and keep their opinions to themselves.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7464288477765297322.post-702264774529201232007-11-04T01:04:00.000-05:002007-11-04T01:04:00.000-05:00Thanks Pickel! I have loved my child from the day ...Thanks Pickel! I have loved my child from the day I found out I was pregnant, figuring out that I could have parented really had no bearing on my feelings for him. It only gave me strength to tell other E-mom's to be informed of all of their options, not just adoption. Being married and wealthy doesn't make good parents and in my young 19 year old mind, I sure believed that it did.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05005536725335104357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7464288477765297322.post-90925648513292063132007-11-04T01:42:00.000-04:002007-11-04T01:42:00.000-04:00I wonder how many people like you are in a differe...I wonder how many people like you are in a different place so shortly after pregnancy and the placement of their child. And I wonder if it contributes to the way you feel about your child. For what its worth...no one should ever tell you to suck it up. Grief is real.Pickelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18090858939486520299noreply@blogger.com